Something I LONG for.....

I got good news yesterday night from my hubby. I am going to write it out and put it in my blog so that my hubby can remember well for what he had promised. He always say say nia (talk only and didn’t make it true) that’s why I need to post it out and let every one of you be my eyewitness. I will only believe him when I see the air ticket.

So, what so excited? He soon become so generous and wanna to bring me for a vacation at Australia at the end of this year. I really love traveling but when Nelson is born, both of us are reluctant to leave him alone with my MIL. Now, Nelson is growing bigger and sure I need to chase for something I like to do.

Hubby said this is my present for born him a baby girl this year. I asked him to save more money from now because I like to buy things during my trip. I will feel sad if I can only see or touch the things I like without bringing it home.

At last, hope my hubby will keep his promise. Thanks for being so kind to me. (Actually I need not thanks him because this is his responsibility). I will feel sad if my dreams do not come true.

Pregnancy and Delivery Story Tag !

This tag comes from Slavemom.Thank you so much for giving me this opportunity to recall back all the things in the past.

Seems like this tag is all about the FIRST pregnancy. Here goes :

1. WAS YOUR FIRST PREGNANCY PLANNED? No, I got Nelson during my honeymoon.

2. WERE YOU MARRIED AT THE TIME? Yes.

3. WHAT WERE YOUR REACTIONS? Anxiety and worry, even cried out at night because scare..

4. WAS ABORTION AN OPTION FOR YOU? Never.

5. HOW OLD WERE YOU? 26 years old.

6. HOW DID YOU FIND OUT YOU WERE PREGNANT? Abnormal period happen.

7. WHO DID YOU TELL FIRST? Hubby.

8. DID YOU WANT TO FIND OUT THE SEX? Yes, of course. But, more like GIRL.

9. DUE DATE? 7 October 2005

10. DID YOU HAVE MORNING SICKNESS? Thankfully, no during my first pregnancy but it’s worse during my second pregnancy now.

11. WHAT DID YOU CRAVE? Need to eat plenty of rice everyday, if not it’s fast to feel hungry.

12. WHO/WHAT IRRITATED YOU THE MOST? Hard to walk coz overweight.

13. WHAT WAS YOUR FIRST CHILD SEX? Male.

14. DID YOU WISH YOU HAD THE OPPOSITE SEX OF WHAT YOU WERE GETTING? Yap.
15. HOW MANY POUNDS DID YOU GAIN THROUGHOUT THE PREGNANCY? (22 kg).
16. DID YOU HAVE A BABY SHOWER? No.

17. WAS IT A SURPRISE OR DID YOU KNOW? N/A.

18. DID YOU HAVE ANY COMPLICATIONS DURING YOUR PREGNANCY? Thankfully, no.

19. WHERE DID YOU GIVE BIRTH? Pantai Hospital Malacca

20. HOW MANY HOURS WERE YOU IN LABOR? Only 25 minutes for the operation.

21. WHO DROVE YOU TO THE HOSPITAL? Hubby.

22. WHO WATCHED YOU GIVE BIRTH? Hubby, my mom, my younger sister and of course the gynae and nurses. hahaha

23. WAS IT NATURAL OR C-SECTION? C-section.

24. DID YOU TAKE MEDICINE TO EASE THE PAIN? Sure coz I scare of pain

27. HOW MUCH DID YOUR CHILD WEIGH? 3.4kg, I think my baby will be hard to come out if by normal delivery

28. WHEN WAS YOUR CHILD ACTUALLY BORN ? 20 sept 2005

30. WHAT DID YOU NAME HIM/HER? ??

31. HOW OLD IS YOUR FIRST BORN TODAY? 4+ years old

Would you kindly share your stories with us Andrewjune, Vickylow, and for those who like to do this interesting tag.

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King of Gambler

During the Chinese New Year, Nelson had become the king of gambler after seeing so many people were playing cards around. When he sees the kids visit our home, he will asks them to play with him. I also don't know how they play the game because they are still so young and didn't know to count or recognize the number well. Sometimes, he also asks for money from his Papa. :(

Actually, gambling is not a good hobby. Everybody will get addicted once they involved in gambling for only a few days. Some of my friends said that it's not like a Chinese New Year celebration if we lost the chance to gamble with our relatives.

My Trouble !

I had gain a lot of weight nowadays even I eat only a little portion with light food. After delivery, I must work hard to lose weight by doing exercising. I had eaten plenty of strawberries, apples and grape. Yesterday, I brought Nelson to the Pasar Malam at Bukit Beruang, Malacca. I asked Nelson to choose whether to buy some red grape or green grape. At first, he chose the red one, after that he changed his mind to the green grape, the food seller also feel funny of Nelson’s action. Nelson is now a sticky kid to me, he likes crying and nagging to me because maybe he knows that he needs to share Mummy’s love with Mei Mei soon. Sometimes, I think he feels jealous.

I got a big trouble now. I haven’t found a good baby sitter for my little baby. I was in dilemma weather sending her for the whole day or half day. I will definitely feel tension and tired looking after her at the morning because I need to teach in the evening. If I let people to look after her, the feeling is so bad because sure I will miss her everyday. What should I do?

Malaysia Eye

During the Chinese New Year, my fourth sis-in-law had visited to Malacca with her family. Nelson was enjoying the ride, he don't feel scare at all. I was waiting them for the ride as I think I am not suitable to join this game. The fees charging is RM 20 for adult and RM 10 for kids 3 years old and above. Discount will be given if you show them your mycard.

My Valentine Day !

I had a boring plus monotonous Valentine Day this year. Hubby had to attend his MBA class and only come back at around 8 p.m. We didn’t book for any grand dinner as he is so busy with his work and study.

So sad again, I didn’t received any present from my hubby as my hubby always said : “ you already have all the things you want.” Guy is always like that as they are not romantic after married. How is this happen for most of the married couple? I am wondering. Yesterday, we went shopping at Dataran Pahlawan, Malacca. He wanna to buy me a present and ask me whether I like it or not. I reject his idea because I don't like the way of presenting me a Valentine's present. As for me, I myself don't buy him a present too. Anyway, I still feel satisfied to have him as my CLUMSY hubby because he always take good care of me. We are actually happy and full of excitement at this moment because we will soon welcoming our little baby girl.

I am now struggling with Nelson every morning as he refused to go to the school. I finally found the reason why is he so phobia about schooling. His art teacher had scolded him because his colouring techniques are poor. I had complaint about this matter to his principle. I think a teacher should not simply scold a kid even he is not good in colouring because he is only 4 years old. He really gives me a big trouble and sometimes I feel regret for sending him to the kindergarten so early. Nelson is only 4 years old, how come a teacher expect him to do a good colouring picture?

My Little Princess New Clothes

From the time being, I always teach Nelson to love his becoming younger sister. I let Nelson to touch and hold my stomach when my little girl is kicking inside my stomach. Nelson will always ask me : " Why Mei Mei still no come out today?" I told him that Mei Mei is still small inside and need to eat more nutrition food before she come to this beautiful world. Hopefully, Nelson can share things with his younger sister in the future. When we goes shopping everytime, Nelson will now ask me to buy new toys for Mei Mei. Two more months to go for me to deliver a baby. So, I need to prepare all the necessary by now. I am now doing things in very clumsy ways because of my big stomach and always feel tired after walking around. It's hard for me to turn around during my sleeping time.

Nelson loves the yellow dresses than the pink one. Me too love the yellow dresses because there are small colourful love images on the dress. Actually the pink one is nice also.

I Love My Spectacles

The Chinese New Year is over, everyone has to go back to normal schedule. Actually, life is quite boring but sometimes we feel enjoyable in this land because we are still alive.

During the Chinese New Year, I had worn my new spectacle which I bought last year. All my friends like my new spectacles so much and they hope to have one pair stylish spectacles too.

I told my friend that we can purchase some low cost frames online by Prescription eyeglasses for only $8! It is in good quality because we can Seeing Straight Without Breaking Bank.

So, remember to pick your favourite frames from Zenni Optical in the New York Times?!

Little Lion Dance

My Big SIL is so kind because she bought this little lion to Nelson. After she bought this to Nelson, Nelson is so greedy to ask for a drum. Sigh! He needs everything but my SIL told him that there is nobody to play with him at home even he owns a drum. Nelson had played with the lion himself and asked for RM 2 as the preformance fees from his daddy.

During the 3rd day of the Chinese New Year, I went for a check up again since the clinic is open on that day. It was a happy day because I had already know the gender of my dear baby. The baby is a baby girl, so Nelson will have a cute younger sister soon. As everyone said I will have a baby boy again but all their guessing is actually wrong.

I am now preparing the clothes for my baby girl and hope to buy some cute dresses to her because there are wide variety of clothes to baby girl.

The Emperor of Heaven

The celebration of Chinese New Year will soon over. Tonight, the ninth day of the New Year, all the Hokkien and Teochew will be busy praying to the Jade Emperor of Heaven. Today is traditionally known as the birthday of the Jade Emperor.

Come midnight of the eighth day of the New Year, we will offer thanks giving prayers to the Emperor of Heaven. Offerings will include sugarcane as it was the sugarcane that had protected the Hokkiens from certain extermination generations ago.

Nelson do enjoys this Chinese New Year as he already knows to play with others and have the chances to taste all the delicious food. Besides, hubby had invited the lion dance at our house. This was the first time we have lion dance at home because Nelson loves to see the performance.

I had to start my tuition class today. It’s boring to work because we have already enjoyed the New Year for one week. Nelson too refused to go to school today.