Malaysia's Doctors

I went follow up with my Gynae yesterday. Pantai Hospital is always so crowded and full of visitors, even the car park is already extended till the uphill, and it’s still fully occupied. Hubby and I heard a conversation between an old lady with a nurse. The aunty complaint about the doctors she had visited before. She said all the doctors only asked her to finish the cough mixture even her coughing is already worst. She also mentioned that all the doctors near her area is only “Small Doctors” (in Hokkien Dialect). She emphasis that it’s better to seek help from the professional doctor and this can save her money and time. The important thing is her coughing can be totally been cure.

Talking about all there “Small Doctors”, I do agree with her. All the doctors in my area are also the same. They just give you medicine to release your pain and doesn’t find out your illness because all the medicine they give won’t harm you. So, if you really feel uncomfortable, seek help from the professional doctor because the consultation fees is the same as the normal doctor and sometimes more cheaper than the lousy doctors.

Like my hubby case, he had visited 4 doctors for his Chicken Pox, the first one said he is only down with flu and light fever. The second doctor is the worst. My hubby had shown him two reddish spot in his neck, but the doctor said that is because of the heat from his body. Oh, no!!! Is he a doctor???

After that, hubby seek help from a traditional doctor which he doesn’t provide any MC to patients. He clarified that hubby is infected by Chicken pox and gave him some Chinese Medicine. So, where to get the MC? Hubby went for another doctor soon. This situation is really frustrated for a sick person. I think we should have awareness to choose a good doctor. As for me, I only see the doctor who I believe in him. I hate those doctors who simply treat the patients.

As a conclusion, can our doctor be more responsibilities? Don’t harm us and harm yourself.

My Confinement Lady

My confinement lady is an expert confinement lady from a special train centre. She is extremely good in cooking. She always forced me to finish all the food. I didn’t dare to eat so much because there are still about 8 kg “fat meats” in my body. After this, I have to work hard to lose my weight which I only wish to maintain my own weight. Since my hubby gets infected by Chicken Pox, she needs to cook lunch for him and my dear son. They can’t eat the same food as mine so she needs to cook many different kinds of dishes. She knows many recipes and she do bring along two recipes books here. She always cooks steam food for me and nutrition soup.

Although she is good in cooking, she is not good in laundry. She doesn’t wash the clothes every day. I think this is her behavior. My hubby always can’t find her short pant and me too always short of face towel or handkerchief. I asked her to put more detergent inside the washing machine while washing because my towel is still smelly.

About taking care of baby, she is full of love and patient. She treats Giselle well and always talks to her. Nelson too loves to play with her, one day I saw Nelson played “Ultraman” with her.

Me, seem like my skin had become fairer because I had been at home for almost 2 weeks and special thanks for my MIL that buying me some “Bird Nest” during my confinement month. This can save my money for doing facial.Times really fly, Giselle girl will soon having full moon 2 more weeks and me too will back to my position. So, better enjoy my life now. Oh! I haven't wash my hair as she not allowed me to do that. I was wondering why my first confinement lady allowed me to wash my hair last time. Who is correct?

My Pity Princess

I can't sleep well last night. I cried ans sobbed because my little princess was sent to Pantai Hospital for ultraviolet scan. The doctor adviced us to send her in because her "yellow" level is quite high. I missed her so much. Girl, you must be lonely there and miss home. Please be braver,ok?

Mummy missed you so much here.
Sorry for not accompany you at the hospital,
Sorry for not giving you a healthy body,
Sorry for you have to leave mummy even you are only 7 days old,
Sorry for not taking good care of you,
Sorry for everything and we love you here.

Papa is here sick also, affected by "Chicken Pox"again like your Nelson kor kor..There's a big mess in our home.

Mummy hopes you can get well soon and come back home today.

My Little Princess!

Oh! So long I didn't update my blog and visit all of you. I just discharged from the hospital on 16, Thursday. My little princess look like Nelson which I mean she look like a baby boy. She is 3.57kg. Every one who see her feel wanna to "Cubit" her face.

I am now eating and sleeping the whole day and sure feel pain also and uncomfortable. Here, thanks for all your concern and have a nice weekend!

Who Have Chicken Pox?

Nelson had no attended to school for 2 days, the doctor said he can only go to school after a week times. He is now with me every morning and he missed his friends and school so much. Many of you may wonder why Nelson takes a long leave. This is because he got Chicken Pox now. After taking the medication, he is now quite OK and luckily he only affected by the light chicken pox and not the serious type.

He didn’t receive any vaccine for Chicken Pox during his young age as many elderly relatives said it’s good for them to have Chicken Pox naturally. Nelson doesn’t know what chicken pox is, so hubby told him that the ants had parking on his skin for a while.  :(

Hope he can get well soon because I am so scare to get infected by this.

My Pity Son!

Today, I had told Nelson that he had to stay with my MIL, his Grandma at home during the time I give birth to my little baby. I told him that he is not allowed to stay at the hospital because only Papa allows doing so. After he listens to my opinion, his eyes become red and tears rolled down his cheeks. When I saw his tears, I feel sorry to him also because he never leaves us before. Since he is born, he sticks to both of us and sure we bring him to every corner we go. So, he goes to school with bad mood today. How to solve this complicated matter? Nelson keeps saying that he wanted to stay with us at the hospital.

I am now feeling very frustrated because it seems hard for me to sleep and doing anything. If I plan to do some simple household chores, my whole body is sweating and wet. Sometimes, I do feel that my heartbeat is too slow.