My life, my hope,my future...

Nelson's Graduation Ceremony

2011-11-22T14:07:00.003+08:00

Nelson gets two trophy during his graduation. One is the 1st Prize in Bahasa Malaysia writing contest and another in in Colouring contest. This little boy still have a long way to go. Hopefully, he can get good result too in the future.

Nelson had been choose to be a Malay boy. He is quite cute in wearing the Malay costume!

Graduation Ceremony

2011-11-10T21:56:00.004+08:00

So long never update my blog, such a busy and busy day n night I have. we will soon celebrate the Christmas in 6 more weeks and 7 more weeks for New Year. So, how about the Chinese New Year? Sure is 10 more weeks only!

This Sunday, I have an important event to attend! That's my dear son, Nelson graduation ceremony. Time really flies...Really can't imagine my son is already 6 years old. He will be in standard one next year. Next year 2012 will be a busy year some more because I need to accompany Nelson to school and guide his homework.

Hopefully he can mix around with his new friends next year!

Giselle 2 Years Old Birthday Party

2011-05-09T14:57:00.001+08:00

My dear princess is now 2 yeard old already. See, she looks like 4 years old girl. She likes to drink soup and eat vegetables not like Nelson boy seldom takes up green food.

Yesterday, Mother's Day I sam my Mom photo with Giselle had posted up in the NTV 7 in the talkshow but i really don't participate in any contest. They had grabbed my photo in my blog, isn't this funny!

My dear princess received many toys on that day. She loves the cooking kitchen set from her Uncle. My girl is really bad-tempered now, I have no special ways to deal with her. I think I will send her to school soon because it's only a good way to cultivate good moral value in her soul.

Merry Christmas & Happy New Year

2010-12-22T14:08:00.008+08:00

We went to KLCC Aquarium last Sunday with my lovely dad and mom. They enjoyed the trip that day. Nelson and Giselle saw a lot of fish in that aquarium. My niece Andria followed us together she is one year older that Giselle.

Latest look of Baby Giselle, Chubby face.

Nelson received 2 medal on that night, one is the first prize in English Writing Competition and one is the Consolation prize for the whole participation. He is growing fast and mind his outlook very much. He knows how to match up his shirt and pants. He always wants me to buy him jeans and others accesories.

Nelson felt happy at that night because it was his first time received awards on the stage. I think it will be a good start for him in his study in the future.

At last, I am going to wish all my lovely blogger's friend a Merry Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!!!!

Where is Your Destination?

2010-11-23T22:05:00.002+08:00

All of us know now is school holiday, so where is your destination? As for me, I don't have go elsewhere because there is no one to look after my kids. Maybe have to wait another year for me to fly over the sea to see another world.

Even we don't have a trip to oversea, I will make my holidays fulfil and happy. First of all, I had registered a swimming course for Nelson during this holidays. I am scared whether he can cope with this new skill next month....I am scared like last time, he refused to join the TEKWONDO class after I registered for him. Hopefully, he can be smart in the swimming lesson.

So, we will surely have a short trip to KL again for the Christmas time. Hubby will bring us to the KLCC aquarium because my little princess, Giselle loves to see fish.

Besides, I will busy attending training in KL. Really don't have any time to take a REST!!!

My Sweetie Pie

2010-09-23T13:37:00.006+08:00

Her round shape face, I think it's hard to be a "V" shape face after she is growing up. Together with her flat nose, the most ugly part. Her eyes too, without double lid and it's too small. Such an ugly duckling.

She is playing with my hairband. Once she gets any of my accessary, she will try it and never return in good condition. She is a spoil master. It's fun to play with her if she is in the good mood. When she is in bad mood, she will throw anything I give it to her on the floor. She is really an impatient kid. Even the Doctor also scared of her, she will cry loudly before she enter to the clinic and keeps struggling with me. I still remembered the doctor praised her is a smart girl because she keeps closing her mouth even she is crying, during the time the doctor wanna to check her throat.

My sweetie pie in now 17 months and 10 days. She loves to dress herself beautifully and then tell people "mei mei" ( pretty ). After I tied up a pony for her, sure she will see herself by facing the mirror. She is learning to talk now, she will always asked "Papa" when she wakes up at the Nanny house. She will shout at me "Miya, Mimi" in nervous situation. About the words "Ah Mak", she can only pronouce it in "Mamak". Her sweet voice really can melt ones heart.

HappyBirthday to Nelson

2010-09-20T11:14:00.005+08:00

Today, my dear son turns 5 years old. Really can't imagine he is now 5 years old. He is such a fussy boy, seldom eat vegetables at home but he takes vege in school. Every teachers praised him is a clever and obedient boy, but for me he is sometimes quite naughty at home.

He is now able to write chinese words very well and read the whole story book. He loves drawing and reading. He likes swimming too but I haven't have time to bring him to swimming lesson.

Lastly, Happy Birthday to my dear dear son, hopefully he is growing well and be a good manner man in the future.

Spelling...ling...

2010-08-19T16:50:00.003+08:00

Nowadays, Nelson has to study his spelling 3 times a week, one for BM, one for BI and Chinese.
He is only 5 and I am wonder it's too early for kids to do spelling??? Every morning, he will show me a sour face and mention that he cannot score 100%. I told him it's OK if you don't get full marks, but you must try your best next time.

Besides teaching at the primary school for Olympiad Maths, and my own centre, the thing that makes me feel headache and stomachache is to teach Nelson to study his spelling. When I teach him spelling, I really put out all my heart and soul and full of patient. Still remember last week the spelling words are tiger, frog, cow and one more " CROCODILE". Oh, my God, he is angry there and give up learning such a long word.

Today, again the words are wasp, moth, beetle and " LADYBIRD". I know he will not get 100% mark today the word "ladybird" he can only spell till "LAD.......". SIGH!!!!

Sad Story....

2010-07-28T12:18:00.002+08:00

Today, many unwanted cases happen in my life. Really don't have mood to go through another 8 hours for today. Life is really frustrated and fed up sometimes.

What can I do? My former teacher who is still keep in touch with me also asked me to be patient and don't give up. Thank you so much for her support.

Can I settle it????

Still Blogging??

2010-07-14T14:25:00.000+08:00

Still Blogging? Haha....yes, still blogging but not a full time blogger or a part time blogger. Now, I will only blog once in a blue moon. I rarely online now because 24 hours a day for me is not enough. I have only own 2 hands but many things are waiting for me to settling them down.

Life is pretty good lately. Hubby had finally found a good paid job. Higher position, higher paid one sure thing is higher tension. Like me, have to in charge everything at home, have to teach as a home teacher to Nelson ( seldom do it now ), have to take care of all my students result, sigh!!! REALLY tire and feel breathless. The most tire thing is I need to chase money like "AH LONG" for those who are paying their fees late, some of them are unwilling to pay even they know they had debt for 2 months fees. How???It is really embarrassed to ask for the tuition fees.

One good new is I had lost 3 kg recently after I gave birth to Giselle. I need to continue my hard work till end of this year. My target is 7 kg more to lose. But, it's quite pity for me because i can't pamper myself with all the delicious food in Melaka.

Birthday Party

2010-06-02T15:43:00.007+08:00

Tang!Tang! This tricycle is one of Giselle's present. She loves it so much. Sometimes, she will lost the control and fall down. Her Grandma gave her a gold bracelet on that day.

One her birthday, Grandma is using the old culture to decide what will Giselle girl be in the future. Grandma put red eggs, "ang ku kuih", book, calculator, pen and others on a big plate. See, she is thinking what to choose. Before she took the red eggs, I already know she will definitely choose the red eggs because her brother Nelson too choose d it when he was one year old.

Haha, she really take the red eggs.

This is her birthday cake on that day. I myself found this cake very beautiful and well decorated.
Isn't it???

Mother's Day Celebration

2010-05-09T21:46:00.007+08:00

My Dear MOM and Baby Giselle

Today is a day full of celebration. We have double celebration today. First, is my hubby birthday according to the Chinese lunar calendar. Of course another celebration will be Mother's Day which we are celebrate it once a year.

Morning, I had cooked Vermicelli to my dear hubby. Although I am not a good cook, the soup base vermicelli I cooked today is quite tasty. Giselle and Nelson love the soup so much. Another special dish is " RED EGG". In Chinese tradition, we need to prepare the red colour egg to the birthday prince or birthday queen hopefully they will have good luck in the future.

Last month, my hubby cooked vermicelli for me also. The food he cooked is always tasteless. I asked Nelson who is a good cook. Since Nelson is smart in answering this type of tricky question, he often said both of us are good cook.

So, what we do during the afternoon session? We went for a High Tea Buffet at Century Mahkota Hotel, an unforgettable hotel in my lifetime because that is the place hubby and I held our wedding there 6 years before. 6 years after, we have 2 lovely kids. My mom loves the Nyonya kuih there. She too eats a lot to day.

My boy, Nelson had prepared 3 presents for me during my 5th Mother's day celebration. One is a cup cake, one flower and one mummy face. He did these in his school and his art class. I am planning to send him to join the Robotic Class soon.

This my cute princess, Giselle. I am waiting for her present for my next Mother's Day. I think she still can't do anything for me next year, maybe have to wait 2 more years. Everybody loves to "cubit" her when they saw her in the shopping centre. She is really chubby and lovely.

As a conclusion, feeling that life is satisfied because I have a good mother, a good hubby who always support me, a naughty boy Nelson who always make me angry and laughter and a cute Princess that bring so much fun in my life.

The Danger of H1N1

2010-04-28T12:30:00.003+08:00

Oh....my goodness, two of my kids take turn to have high fever. Giselle fever had just subsided yesterday, now the virus had invaded Nelson.

When I brought them to Pantai Hospital, there was really crowded. The doctor told me that if the fever had not subside in 2 days time, they will be suspected diagnosed with H1N1. I almost fainted to look after 2 of my lovely kids.

Since I had fired my maid, I sent Giselle to baby sitter home again. The baby sitter is so scare, she told me not to send Giselle there if she really got H1N1. See, everyone is so scare about this.

Most of the school in Malacca have cancel all the outdoor activities due to this H1N1. Hopefully the virus will soon leave our country. So, we better do much precaution to prevent H1N1.

Happy Birthday to Giselle

2010-04-14T11:15:00.003+08:00

Today, Giselle turn 1 year old. How times flies..... Sometimes, I really can't believe I am a mother of two kids. When I see her cry, I really don't know how to deal with her, but see her smile and try to call " Ma Ma", the feeling is hard to describe.

Giselle loves to play with her hand phone lately, every other things she gets if in rectangle shape, she will out it near to her ear and said, " Papa, Papa". What a up-to date kids. Besides, my Nelson boy also request to buy a hand phone. He told me that he can call me up if he miss me at school. Kids are now very cunning, we as a parents must be cunning than them.

Actually, I didn't hold a party to Giselle because we will be going back to "Kampung" for the 1 year old celebration. It's good to have party there because everyone can help especially my big sister-in-law is always so kind to prepare all the things.

I had bought her a pair of new shoes, a beautiful hat and a pretty dress. Soon after, I will post it out.

Do you know what I had done last month? I had fired my maid last month because I think she does thing in slow motion and cannot take good care of Giselle. So, I had sent her back and take back small part of my MONEY.

Lastly, wish my lovely daughter have a Happy Birthday here. Papa, Mama and Kor kor love you so much...

11 months old

2010-03-30T10:43:00.004+08:00

Giselle is 11 and half month old. That means she will turn 1 year old in the next month. So, I am now planning what to do to celebrate her birthday. Hubby said we are too busy lately and will not hold a party at home. Giselle is now very boyish, crawling here and there and is trying to walk.

She doesn't like to play with her toy I buy but likes to play all the others items at home like chairs, newspaper, handbag and......Why? I am wonder. Maybe I need to send her to attend the Montessori Class soon.

Hazel's Day !

2010-03-18T16:11:00.000+08:00

Tomorrow, Friday 19 March will be my personal DAY. I would like to call it Hazel’s Day, haha. I will only do the thing I like tomorrow; I will go for a SPA and facial. Next, going for shopping and have a tea break, a cup of special brew cappuccino and slice of favourite cake. Hmmm, this is our dream day which means we will not doing any household chores and rushing to finish a pile of paper work.

Actually, I do have a lot of unfinished task but I told myself I must spend some pleasure time to pamper myself.

Well, anybody who will like to join me???

Olympiad Maths

2010-03-16T12:28:00.003+08:00

I had attended the courses of Olympiad Maths lately. This is really a tough subject for students but once they follow the lesson for couple of times, surely they will be benefited.

For those who gets good result for all the competition, certificate will be given. Once you owns all the certificate, you are able to get scholarship to study oversea.

As a Melaka site, Olympiad Maths tutor, I need to try my best to teach all my students, hoping one day they can get a medal for the international competition.

Chinese New Year Festival

2010-02-08T14:19:00.003+08:00

Chinese New Year celebration will soon approaching. Everyone is so happy to celebrate this most grandly festival. Nelson keeps asking how many days to go for this festival. Besides, he demanded to have many new clothes like Giselle girl and me. I myself bought a lot of new clothes this year. Still remember I was pregnant last year and don't have much pretty dress due to the weight gain.

Lately, I was so busy for tidy up my sweet home, cleaning and packing for " Balik Kampung" trip. Luckily, my maid arrived and she helps me a lot. I am now very in dilemma because Giselle girl don't like the maid. She will cry aloud when I leave her with the maid just only for 2 minutes. I must make use this festival holidays to let her be friend with the maid, so I can bring Giselle girl back which I mean Giselle girl will not go for Baby Sit anymore. Hopefully, all went well.

Yesterday, we went to Jusco Bandaraya Melaka, which is a new shopping mall in town. It is the biggest shopping complex in Melaka. But, if compare to Kuala Lumpur, it still small and don't have many others branded outlet. Tonight, we will be going out to Jonker Street Melaka to see the biggest Lion troupes in town.

One good news is Nelson had been choose to be the class monitor, I was wondering why the teacher choosed him because he is not really a smart boy. He is so naughty and sometimes make me angry.

Lastly, wish all of you have a Happy Chinese New Year, may the God of Prosperity come to our home this year. haha!

School Reopen Day

2010-01-06T14:03:00.002+08:00

Nelson had continue schooling from Monday, which is our Malaysia school reopen day. He wakes up early at the morning everyday now. He likes schooling. He always tells me and hubby that he is now entered to the Five Years Old class, sound like love to be the elders one in school.

I had make a mistake before the school reopen day. I didn't check whether his uniform is still fit for him or not. As usual, he wears his 4 years old uniform to school. When he is back home, he told me that " Mummy, my uniform is very tight,I cannot dance well by put up my hands." Only then, I realized that his uniform is really small for him.

The next day, I had ordered another bigger size uniform for him. Besides, he told me that there are 2 others kids also have the same Ben 10 school's bag. So, I need to put a key chain for him. This will be more easier for him to recognize his school bag.

Sob! SOB !

2009-12-23T15:14:00.001+08:00

Ten days didn’t update my blog. What I am busy for? Sigh!!! My study room is loaded with plenty of works. I am so scare to sit inside the room because don’t know which to start first and when will all the works being done.

This month I am so busy attending my course every Sunday in Kuala Lumpur. Last Saturday, I had gone shopping at the Mid Valley Megamall, but buy nothing. SOB! SOB! So sad! The shopping mall is so crowded and all the car park was fully occupied. We waited outside for chance; luckily we rounded inside the car park, zone C and waited for about 20 minutes to get a car park.

I didn’t bring Giselle along because I wish to have some shopping time for myself but I still need to help my youngest sister to look after her daughter, my youngest niece. She is quite naughty too, doesn’t want to sit in her stroller, wanted to walk with us, running here and there. So, end up I didn’t done much shopping.

Yesterday was the Winter Solstice Festival. I helped my mom for making glutinous rice ball. Nelson loves this festival celebration so much because he likes eating glutinous rice ball mix with ginger soup. There will be no countdown for Christmas Eve in Portuguese Settlement, Melaka this year. So, we will not going to visit the settlement this year.

Lastly, I am here to wish my entire buddy to have a merry Merry Christmas and the Happy New Year! Wish all of you have a healthy body and happy life in the following year.

8 Months Old.

2009-12-14T13:48:00.007+08:00

Giselle is turning 8 months old today. She is now likes to try solid food like bread, biscuit and soup. She can sit steadily but sometime may fall down if she try to grab something she wanted. My hands will feel pain on every Monday because I need to hug her during the weekend. Do you know why? She is now a 11 kg baby girl. She is a big big girl. I already gave away her "M" size diaper and now the "L" size diaper also seems tight for her.

Last Saturday, when we have our dinner, a stranger try to talk to her. After a few minutes, she cried loudly. This aunty is quite "KPC" because she said Giselle should keep fit during her adult age and mentioned that she is too fat.

She is now able to mention "mum mum" ( food ) is not "Mummy" and can ask " Pa Pa". She is our sweet heart and dear princess.

Weekend Activity.

2009-12-09T10:19:00.000+08:00

Two days didn’t touch the computer. Two days didn’t reply all my lovely mail. Why? I also doesn’t know what had happen? Maybe the poor networking or my computer had already old enough?

Hubby and I had attended a training last Sunday in Cheras, Kuala Lumpur. During my trip, I had only spent 30 minutes to have a cup of coffee and some toast in Sunway Pyramid. When I was there, I really can feel the Christmas celebration is around. All the decoration is so beautiful and really attractive. I found a new fun activity there, we have chances to see the dolphin and sea lions show near Sunway Pyramid.

My dad and my mom do follow me because they need to help me to look after Nelson. We sent them to my younger sister house near Subang. So, how about Giselle? I sent her to the nanny house. It’s really hard for me to attend any classes now because nobody takes care of my kids.

The duration of the course is 3 months. So, I had planned to bring Giselle to Kuala Lumpur this week because the nanny have to go to Singapore for her holidays trip. Just scare she can’t be familiar with new places and make noise there.

Latest Kid's Ride

2009-12-03T12:59:00.005+08:00

During my last trip going back to my hubby hometown, we only have a short trip to BP Mall. My niece, Qi Qi said this a new ride for kids. It's strawberry in shape. The colours too are very attractive. It's expensive, RM 3 for each child. This rides ended in about 5 minutes time.

As for me, not doing much shopping because I have to look after Giselle. Since the Christmas is coming soon, I do hope to have a shopping trip to Kuala Lumpur. Nelson and Giselle already have many new clothes for the coming Chinese New Year, so I only need to purchase some fancy dress for myself.

When mention about Christmas, everybody moods is so happy and full of joy. We can hear Christmas songs everywhere, a lot of pretty decoration too can cheer up our mood. This month will full of activities to go through, I think I will perm my hair soon. Woman hair is always not much changing, either straight hair or perm hair.

Very soon, the year 2009 will be ended. Is there still have any important thing you buddies haven't done? It will soon be the start of the new year.

Olympic Mathematics

2009-11-26T13:54:00.000+08:00

Have you ever hear about Olympic Mathematics? Olympic Mathematics is now very famous in Kuala Lumpur and Johor. Olympic Mathematics is a useful Mathematics subject which can help students to think logically in Mathematics. This sure will help all the students when they step into secondary school or higher level of education.

Not all the students have chances to go through this subject, only the selected and the talented will have chance. Actually, this is quite unfair to those who are weak. They still have chance to learn it but till they reach higher level of this program, they will automatically give up because maybe their talented is not in learning Olympic Mathematics.

Olympic Mathematics is an international Mathematics. Every year, there are many competitions for students to take part. If they are really good, the company will send them to compete in foreign country. They are quite a number of students who already get scholarship studying at Singapore. So, how about the fees? I think it’s reasonable in this new globalization era.

Learning Olympic Mathematics is definitely better in learning mental arithmetic. If your children have the chance to go follow the lesson, don’t miss it. Hopefully this Olympic Mathematics will help our kids in learning Mathematics.

Maid, REALLY?

2009-11-24T13:46:00.001+08:00

After struggle for a few months, I finally made up my mind to employ a maid. The agent said the Cambodia maid is much better than Indonesia one. So, we decided to have the Cambodia maid. The agent said we still need to teach the maid about 2 months and teach her some simple English. I am scare that she won’t take good care of my little princess.

It’s so hard to make this decision because everything has the advantages and disadvantages. If so, I no need to do so many household chores such as mopping, washing and so on. On the other hand, I will lose my freedom. I need to be at home every second or bring her and my girl for outing. In this, I really feel jealous with those who stay with their mom or mother-in-law. That is why we called them as “golden ages”.

In my sweet home, hubby and I have to settle everything by ourselves, we have no guidance from the elderly. Sometimes, really feel unconfident in doing something. After few more years, I think we will transfer back to Batu Pahat. I think I will miss my hometown everyday if this idea comes true.

Lastly, to all my blogger friends here, can guide me some useful ways to treat my maid?

Friday Night !

2009-11-22T20:05:00.001+08:00

Last Friday night, we went to Jonker Walk, Malacca. Everything seems so fresh and new to me since I had never been there for a long time. We had our dinner there. We had ordered a Nyonya Laksa and Rendang Wan Tan Mee. Besides, we had a bowl of Nyonya cendol. Three of us share a bowl of Nyonya Cendol because the weather is so cool lately and I don’t really hope Nelson to have too much cool stuff. The taste of my food is indescribable. Yummy and tasty. Quite a long time I didn’t eat ice cendol because it’s high in cholesterol.

Many may wonder why I am so free to go there. It’s because the school holidays is approaching and all my students had stop their tuition class. So, I have to spend some quality time for myself after I gave birth to Giselle. Sure I need to prepare all the notes and exercises for next year syllabus during my holidays.

There are many stall selling pineapple tarts and ladies accessory. I had purchased 3 pair of homemade earrings for myself and a small beautiful hair pin for my little princess, Giselle. Actually, I planned to buy a pair of special homemade slipper but the price is too expensive.

7 Months Old !

2009-11-14T20:07:00.003+08:00

Happy 7 months old to my Princess Giselle. We dote her a lot because she is the only daughter I have. She is really big in size. She is now learning to crawl. It's cute to see her push her thigh in front.

Giselle loves to grab things now. This makes me recalled an incident happen last two week. When we have our dinner at a restaurant, she immediately grab a piece of chicken from my plate of rice. Thank God it's not a hot soup, if not sure she will get hurt. She has two teeth now, so the nanny is trying to give her some solid food.

Since she is teething, I had bought some teething biscuit for her to bite. But, I think she doesn't like the biscuit because she will always throw it on the floor after get hold of it. Why? I am wonder. Is that the weird taste of the biscuit? She likes biting and gnawing every toys she gets. At night, she can't sleep well, I think it's maybe the pain of teething make her feel uncomfortable.

Time really flies! She will turn 10 months old during this coming Chinese New Year.

Raining Season

2009-11-10T15:02:00.002+08:00

Due to the rain, many of us especially me the lazy type feel unwanted to involve in too much work such as cooking, ironing and so on. When thinking to blog, feel scare of the thunder which can spoil my computer. When thinking of going out to shop, feel frustrated to carry an umbrella. Besides, it's so boring to hang out the wet clothes, seems like still wet even it's outside the whole day.

Human is always so greedy. We always blame to have a hot weather here when it's a sunny day. But, we still feel dissatisfied during the rainy day. What we want actually? If there is a thunder, Nelson will feel scare because he is chicken hearted. He will come to sit beside me and didn't dare to sleep alone.

What can we do during a rainy day? I would like to have a cup of hot coffee or hot chocolate. Since the TV channel is not clear, it's better to browse a magazine or book.

I HATE This! Do you?

2009-11-04T10:35:00.003+08:00

I HATE this. I really HATE this. I always hate the guard who tie up my plastic bag with a cable tie. I think this is useless. Can’t they use their common sense that we still can steal goods although our bag is being tie up?

Actually, I didn’t plan to go shopping yesterday night. Due to the heavy rain, we have a trip to Giant Hypermarket. Hubby and I just hope to browse some magazines at the book shop after our dinner. Really don’t understand why they like to do this stupid thing just to upset their customers. It’s hard for me to tear it off and this will also make the plastic bag cry loudly when I use a scissors to cut it off.

My Favourite!

2009-11-03T12:59:00.005+08:00

This will be my new Holiday Fun Eyeglasses soon. I really love the special colour of Burgundy which mixes up with pink colour inside. This is a latest spectacle which can make me look younger and up to date. There are still many New Arrivals for you to choose. Besides, wearing a pair of unique spectacles is so important. You will sure be more success in your career because of your professional look by wearing high quality spectacles. So, what are you waiting for? Go to $8 Prescription Zenni Glasses to choose your favourite eyeglasses.

Baby Giselle

2009-11-02T13:47:00.007+08:00

She has lots of new clothes. Most of it are special courtesy from her "Ta Ku" ( Auntie ). All these baby clothes are so pretty and nice, but I think she can't wear it for long time because she grow up quickly. She is now 10 kg, so worse she can't wear the "M" size pampers anymore.

Her chubby face is really cute. Everytime she goes shopping, many shoppers would like to say "Hi" to her. After looking all their faces, she will soon cry because she still cannot accept strangers.

She loves me to put a handkerchief on her head and likes playing hide and seek with us. She is such a playful baby now. Due to her teething, she is now has light cough. I will miss her every moment especially when I am free. This is the instinct of being a MOM.

Budget 2010

2009-10-26T10:33:00.003+08:00

Through the budget report 2010 last Saturday, does anyone of you get benefited? If yes, congratulate to you lots. As for me, I don’t think I get any advantage of the budget 2010 because I am only a part time tutor and a housewife. Whatever the decision are, we have to follow but our ideas and suggestions will sure be ignore forever.

Firstly, about the RM 50 service charge for credit card’s holders. This is ridiculous! We need to pay this extra charging even we own credit cards which is free for life. Many of us using credit cards because of convenience. Our government had fixed this rule simply because many youngsters had heavy debts after hold a credit card. So, what is the good way to solve this? RM 50 for those who have many debts is nothing but for me only a housewife, it mean a lot. In this case, the government should educate all the credit card holders to spend wisely. Always remember them to treat their credit cards like cash or fix the numbers of credit cards they have.

Next, it’s about the RM 500 tax deduction for your broadband connection. The amount is so little after much calculates. It this high technology era, I think our government can fix WIFI at every corner. This can certainly encourage everyone including the senior citizen like my parents to use the computer. Last but not least, it will also benefit to all the tourists who visit to Malaysia.

Still remember last year the entire car owners are eligible to get RM 625 as a rebate for the high prices of petrol. This programme should keep on going because everything cost an arm and a leg nowadays. Since our government are afford to do this last year, that means it’s affordable for the coming year.

I would now like to mention about the issues of corruption. To solve this, everybody must work hand in hand. Stricken rules should be imposed. If our government really can solve this hateful problem, the money can be use in better ways such as helping the poor, the disabled and others. Talking about corruption, I recalled a story of my friend. He is such a brave young man. He got a RM 300 fine from the police. He is so smart because he was unwilling to pay the police RM 50 for “ MAKAN SUAP”. I felt proud of him because when the police stopped his car, he straight showed out his license and said : “just give me a fine, I am rushing.” Is it we should follow his good example?

Piano Lesson

2009-10-23T10:40:00.002+08:00

Nelson boy have to attend his third piano lesson at my aunty house today. He loves music from the day he was born. Hopefully he can try his best and follow the lesson well.

Every time he goes there, my aunty will treat him some delicious cookies and others. He is waiting eagerly for Friday to come. So, he is already packing up his bag and his pencil box now.

At first, he refused to go but after much persuasive, he agreed. What is the ways we use to persuade him? We told him that he can learn to play many songs through the lesson. He loves “Happy Birthday” song and said he will play this to his sister during the birthday. Will he???

A Trip to the Clinic

2009-10-21T13:00:00.000+08:00

Giselle had a bad cough yesterday. After checking by the doctor and eat the medicine given, she still coughing. Hopefully, she will turn well soon.

On that day, hubby was busy and don’t have time to fetch us to the clinic. So, I asked Nelson “kor kor” to look after Giselle at the back of the car. I don’t have a car seat on that time because I had borrowed it to my younger sister. So, we maybe will bring Giselle travel to Kuala Lumpur next month to take back the car seat and have a shopping trip there.

When Nelson looked after Giselle at the back of the car, the situation was quite funny. I let Giselle lay down behind, so it will be easy for Nelson to carry her. Nelson don’t know how to comfort his “mei mei” when she is crying. Luckily, the journey to the clinic from the Nanny’s house is just a stone throw.

Since Giselle doesn’t like to lie down, I have to let her sit properly during our journey to nanny’s house. This time, I let Nelson to sit beside Giselle and asked him to hug her tightly. After we arrived at nanny’s house, Nelson told me that his hands were very pain. So, I promised to massage his hands.

This was really a good experience for Neslon and me to learn the ways to cope with difficulties.

Happy 6 Months Old

2009-10-15T12:46:00.003+08:00

Baby girl Giselle turned 6 months old yesterday. Times really flies. Still remembered the moment I was sent into the operation room, full of scared and horror. Sometimes really can't believe that I am that brave.

She is now able to hold things and likes to put everything into her mouth. She likes to listen to "Twinkle Twinkle Little Star". Everytime she hears this songs, she will push her thigh, like she is able to dance.

The nanny start feeding her with porridge mix with carrot and potato. She likes it so much. She will cry a little moment after her porridge is finish. Seems a glutton baby girl. Her eyes is too small and she has a flat nose.

Maid or Nanny

2009-10-12T10:23:00.002+08:00

Giselle nanny is quite problematic to me. Last Saturday was actually Melaka state holidays. I myself also didn’t realize it until the nanny asks for leave. She told me on the last minutes so it was quite difficult for me to change my entire schedule. I reject her request because I have class on Saturday even though it’s a holidays I also told her I will bring Giselle home early on this Friday because the oncoming Saturday will be Deepavali holidays.

Nowadays, sure enough all of you can see all the nannies have earned a lot of money. As for me, if they charged us with much money, please don’t mind to look after Giselle for half more day. If I myself can look after her during all the holidays which means I don’t have to work sure I will like to look after her myself.

Last year, I already in dilemma whether to employ a maid or a local nanny. Now, I am still facing the same situation. I think it’s better for me to get a maid right now.

Do You Smoke?

2009-10-12T10:13:00.003+08:00

Many of us know health is wealth. Besides maintain a balance diet and exercising, most of us will not forget to have other supplements which are good for health. We do these because we hope to live longer in this beautiful world. So, what is your opinion about smoking? Is smoking really badly for health?

Smoking is bad for health because it will cause to illnesses such as bad breath and lung cancer to human. Smoking is not only affect the smoker himself but also the non-smoker. Even many of us have the knowledge about the disadvantages of smoking, there are still many who love to smoke. For those who like to smoke, they always feel that their tension had been released after have a stick of cigarette. Nowadays, it is common to see female smoker everywhere.

Actually, what is the feeling of smoking? If you want to try it, you can have an e cigarette because it is a smoker’s smart choice and it is definitely a new invention for modern smoker.

E cigarettes are better than other traditional cigarettes because it can be refill by using e cig refills. You will never sense any odor if you smoke indoors. Many of you may wonder about e cigarettes. Before you try E-cigarettes, remember to check about the e cigarettes charges.

Short Trip Travelling to North

2009-10-07T12:38:00.003+08:00

Travelling is quite tired but is always full of fun. After I gave birth to Nelson, hubby and I seldom go on vacation. This time, in conjunction to attend my hubby’s convocation, we have some time to hang out for 3 days.

Day 1

We arrived at Kedah around 6a.m,Friday morning. We have a short nap in our car because the campus is not yet open. We went there early to collect the cloak. After collecting, we rounded the area searching for food. Unfortunately, not many Chinese foods there. Feeling frustrated and hungry, we finally made up our mind to check-in at Holiday Villa Hotel. There is a small shopping mall beside; we had our brunch there, MacDonald again. So, I had collected the second cola glass. After eating, we went back to our room, taking bath and have a long nap. Nelson was so tires and he is the last to wake up. Since Kedah is not a shopping paradise, we decided to have a swim at the hotel’s swimming pool. This was the first time Nelson learnt how to swim. He enjoyed playing with the water. I myself also is not a good swimmer, so three of us only dump inside the kid’s pool. Luckily, I remembered to bring our swimming suit. After dinner, we only stay at our room for TV shows.

Day 2

After the grand function had ended, hubby said we are better travel to Pinang. So, we check-in at B-suit. This time, feeling happier because there are many shopping complexes. This hotel provided very basic facilities but the room is clean and cosy for customer. Even the room is bigger than the room at Holiday Villa Hotel. Nelson keeps asking to have a swim but there is no swimming pool provided. During our journey to B-suit hotel, we had lost even we own a map to the hotel. Because of tiredness, hubby soon arrived at Queensbay Mall. We had our tea-time there. After asking about the route to B-suit hotel, we soon check-in the hotel. Thank you so much for the salesgirl who is so kind to show us the way to our hotel.

Hmmm, dinner time again. We were lost again at the area, but we reached to a residential area which has a hawker centre. We finally had fine something special to eat. Without any second thought, I had ordered a plate of Fried Koay Teow which is my favourite food. Besides, we had some “satay”, Hokkien Mee, and others. Due to the unfamiliar with the route, we went back to our hotel. We sleep in a full stomach.

Day 3

We had our breakfast at a hawker centre. We check-our earlier because it will be my shopping time at Queensbay Mall. Before going to this destination, we hope to buy some “Tau Sar Pneah” which is a pastry stuffed with a finely blended mix of green beans, sugar and seasoned with a pinch of salt and hint of fried onions. We found the way to Bukit Jambul because there are 2 shops selling these pastries according to the hotel’s receptionist. We reached there at 10:30p.m, the shops not yet open. I was wonder why they are running their business so late. So, we have to spend some time at the Bukit Jambul shopping mall for waiting the shops to open. Very unlucky, the shops still not open till 12:00p.m. So, hubby called the shop dealer, he said that all the pastries had been fully sold. Do you believe?? One of it is Chuan Peng Hiang and the others are Dragon Pearl Biscuit. Can they treat the customer in this way? I think they probably have good business in selling “Tau Sar Pneah” . If a tourist from western country who loves to eat these special pastries “Tau Sar Pneah”, sure they will feel disappointed because our government keeps advertising our country special products to foreign country through the media or the internet. These problems will soon affect our country, Malaysia image. During my shopping trip at Queensbay Mall, I had bought plenty of new clothes from MNA, Nichii , Forever 21 and others. We have the luck to taste Japanese sushi at Sakae Sushi. It’s so special because they provide kid’s meal to children.

Around 5:00p.m, we went to Bukit Tambun for seafood at Gee Seng Restaurant. The dishes here are really mouth watering. The prices too are very reasonable. Fortunately, there is a shop selling “Tau Sar Pneah” here. After eating and buying the “Tau Sar Pneah”, we have our journey back to Melaka. Actually, hubby plans to stay one night at Kuala Lumpur but we cannot make it because I feel so tire and missed my Giselle girl so much. Lastly, we arrived at 11:30p.m at our sweet home.

As a conclusion, I love travelling, if I can keep on travelling every day, every minutes, sure I will remain at 21 years old forever and ever. Even this is only a local trip, but I do appreciate it.

MacDonald's Lovely Gift

2009-09-29T15:08:00.006+08:00

Last week, I brought Nelson to shop at Jusco, hoping to buy him some good books. After loitering an hour at the bookshop, Nelson demanded that he wants to eat MacDonald. He loves to have kids meal because there is special toys inside.

When we went there, it was the first day for this free glass promotion. This glass is so pretty and the colour is in light pink which is my favour colour. We need to purchase a large meal including an ice-cream, then we can get the free gift. Oh..my godness! both of us can't finish such a big meal and I myself can't eat so much fast food, scaring the high calories. We had left some french fried and the soft drink there.

There have 7 colours for these nice glass. I just hope to collect all of it but that means I have to eat MacDonald every week???One of my friends also like these glasses so she joined a game for wining this set. As I am not a good gamer, so sure I won't get good resultlah.

Now and After!

2009-09-26T20:19:00.004+08:00

I am now a fat lady like the picture above. I have gain much weight after my second delivery. After 3 months my delivery, I had work hard to do exercise, but feel pain in the c-section. After consult my gynea, he said it's better to start my diet after 6 months. A lot of clothes of my cannot wear recently, feeling frustrated sometimes because keep changing clothes before an outing.

See, this will be my new look for 2010, hopefully it will be. But, my hair is too short now and it's quite impossible to lose 10kg of weight in 3 months time. What to do?

Birthday Celebration!

2009-09-24T14:51:00.006+08:00

My 3rd sis-in-law, was making pudding to all the kids. These Lychee Pudding was simply delicious. On that day, they had finish 100 cups of puddings. Besides that, my big sis-in-law had ordered some "Nasi Beriani", "Rendang", "satay"and others tasty food. Everyone of them co-operate to hold a party to Nelson, me only took care of Giselle girl and didn't involed in the birthday preparation. If I held a party at Malacca, sure hubby and I have to do all the things.

Nelson received a Ben 10 cake from my sis-in-law. He loves the cake so much. The baker too is good in designing this Ben 10 cake. My SIL only showed him a Ben 10 pencil box to make sure they can make this cartoon. Nelson received an "ang pau" from his granny and many others Ben 10 stuff such as Ben10 sport shoes, Ben10 school bag, pencil case and others.

There were many cousin,niece, nephew who celebrate birthday with Nelson. There are all waiting eagerly for the Ben 10 cake, Nelson too was very worry someone will spoil his birthday cake. My belove son is only 4 years old, hopefully he will grow up healthy and happy all the times. This is a simple hope by all the parents in this world.

Selamat Hari Raya

2009-09-18T14:42:00.002+08:00

Selamat Hari Raya and Happy Holidays!!!

Busy LIFE!

2009-09-16T19:59:00.002+08:00

Since Nelson had not been to school for almost a month, I am quite busy at home. Besides doing household chores, I need to teach him in his writing and colouring. I told him that I am your teacher and your mummy now, but Nelson will ignore it by saying I am not his teacher. Through this, feeling that it’s hard and difficult to teach my own son.

Nelson’s teacher said that if he still doesn’t attend to school, so he will miss the chance to take part in the 4 years old graduation stage performance. SIGH!!! What should I do? Can all of you give me some suggestion?

So, we will be going back to Batu Pahat to celebrate Nelson's birthday. How about next week? Hmmm, we will travelling to north, attending an honour celebration that's my hubby's MBA course graduation. Since my hubby had finished his MBA course last year,he got to attend this grand function which he always long for. Here, I am going to take this opportunity to congrat him. I am going to write a short message to my hubby here although I know he will never have time to read my blog.

I know you are a smart, intelligent man;

I know you are always so kind to me,

sure enough you wil love me forever;

I will here support you always.

Ben 10 Again !

2009-09-08T13:38:00.005+08:00

Nelson is holding a Ben 10 lantern. After he saw this lantern during our "balik kampung" trip, he keeps asking for a lantern. I want him to take good care of his lantern because it's only 20 days for the mooncake festival celebration. He likes to play with "Qi Qi jie jie" and he always bully her.

Nelson will turn 4 years old on this Hari Raya festival, he already planned to have a Ben 10 birthday cake. He is wearing the Ben 10 suit which I bought at the market, is an imitated item.One day, I was wondering why he keeps looking to his back at the mirror. Then, I realised that the Ben 10 cartoon is being printed on the back side of his t-shirt. What a funny kid he is?

He had stop schooling now, I think for a month's time because the H1N1 is so worst in Malacca. Besides, he always fall sick almost once a month after he attend the kindergarten classes. The teacher keeps calling me to send him to school by saying that their examination is coming. For me, I will not emphasize so much on his academic as I know that he is only 4 years old kid. I wanna let him to have a happy childhood.

Steamboat Dinner On a Rainy Day

2009-09-02T16:00:00.002+08:00

The weather nowadays is quite cool. Yesterday was a raining day again, so hubby brought us for a steamboat dinner at a newly open restaurant at Melaka Raya, Yi Tang. Talking about having dinner, we are always thinking about what to eat and where to go to. Having a steamboat is the right choice during a rainy day, I love it so much. The atmosphere at this restaurant is so beautiful especially the toilet.

Why do I say so? It’s simply because Nelson had visited to the toilet as many as three times. They provide 4 types of soup for us to choose. There are Tom Yam soup, Herbal soup, Fish Head soup and chicken soup. We had ordered a feast for two, one is tom yam soup and another one is herbal soup. They served two small steamboat bowls for us. The bowl is so nice if compare to the traditional one. While, this is the first time I dine at this restaurant. So worst, I didn’t bring along my camera and could not show a picture to all of you.

How about the food? Nelson said yummy, yummy. For me, I think it’s fresh and tasty. They don’t provide the normal fish ball or other freezing ingredients to customer. One special thing for me is the yam fish ball; it contains the yam paste inside the fish ball. Where can I buy this fresh homemade fish ball?

The price is quite expensive but I think it’s worth it because the air-cond inside is so cool which is really suitable for a steamboat dinner.

Hungry Ghost Festival

2009-08-20T15:05:00.002+08:00

Today's as a first day of the Hungry Ghost Festival.It's a festival connected with dead. Its called as Hungry Ghost Festival because the Gates of hell are opened, which means the hungry ghost will come to earth in search of food.

Sure you feel scare after getting to know this festival, so the Chinese will offer food to these hungry ghosts on the street to stop the ghosts from coming to their house. According to our ancestor, we are not allow to go out during the evening or doing any renovation at home. Besides, we are not allow to held a party because it's believe that we are inviting the ghosts to dine at our home. Believe it or not?

Tomorrow, hubby will have to go for a new job interview at Batu Pahat. A job which offer him a higher paid salary, a company car and a company house too.If success, that means we have to move back to Batu Pahat, my hubby's hometown and I will soon be JOBLESS!!

We need a Peaceful World

2009-08-18T15:38:00.003+08:00

I was shocked yesterday. My neighbour’s house that staying in the corner, same row with me was broke in again, second time. Actually, I was quite busy yesterday, going in and out from my house but I saw nothing. From where the thief came in??? My neighbour told me that the thief came in from the roof. From the roof, I was wondering and shocked. The house had fixed a camera in front of his house and completing with the alarming system.

The thief went up the roof from the third house to reach his house. What a clever thief he was? He must be a very good climber or working as a roof repairing workers. I hate them actually. Why didn’t they work hard to get money? Why didn’t they seek help from people or the government? Stealing is not a good way to get money.

I can’t sleep well last night. I am scare that I will see a thief inside my house while I open my eyes. I need a peaceful residential to live in. This is not only my hope but all of you, right? Talking about peaceful world, it makes me recall a song from Michael Jackson, I don’t the name of the song but I love the meaningful chorus.

4 Months Old Celebration

2009-08-13T14:23:00.005+08:00

Giselle had turn 4 months old last Sunday follow by the lunar calendar. Sometimes I am quite confused with the lunar date because it is complicated and weird. She is now 8 kg in her weight and like to scream loudly. Her sound is really sharp.

She is wearing the one year old clothes now. She can't wait for her feeding every time, this had make me feel panic for making her a bottle of milk. I had brought her a packet of organic brown rice powder to mix in her milk which can let her grow well with others nutrition.

I didn't dare to buy any new clothes for her because she seems grow very fast and almost all the clothes look so small already.

we had celebrated her 4 months old at Batu Pahat. It is just a simple praying to the ancestor with some offerings such as cakes, sticky rice, and others.

Big Mango

2009-08-06T15:11:00.003+08:00

Due to the world epidemic ( Swine Flu ), many of us did not go out for shopping or do any grocery. Last Monday, when I went to Jusco, the mall was really quiet and unusual. Since then, I also did not dare to shop for too long. After purchased some goods, I went home quickly and took a shower before Nelson come home from his school.

I bought a big mango from Jusco. The fruits sold at Jusco are always fresh and good in quality. Sure, the price is also "special". This big mango was imported from India and for me the taste is as usual one. In this diseases era, we are better to eat more fruit and drink plenty of water.

The Swine Flu in Malacca is really worst, hubby told me that there were 4 died of swine flu. He told me that their panel are not willing to treat patient who have fever. Their doctor will straight asked the operator to seek medication consultation in the Hospital Melaka. Another funny thing is all the windows in the clinic are widely opened just to let the virus "swim" outside.

As a doctor, I think they can't treat patient like this. As a doctor, sure they have other ways to protect themselves from affected. If they act like this, who is going to save our life?

How to Protect Your Eyes?

2009-08-05T16:16:00.001+08:00

Many of us had neglected to protect our eyes in this modern era. It is important to have a pair of beautiful eyes to women. Women are willing to spend thousand dollars in a salon just to beautify their big brown eyes. Is there any others way to beautify your eyes?

For those who are beauty awareness, you can purchase some eye cream which can reduce the skin damaging cause by natural process of aging. Do read more about Eye Cream Reviews and you will soon know that it is an effective way to make you look youthful. Try it today and don’t miss this good product.

Swine Flu

2009-08-03T15:07:00.003+08:00

The recent scare has taken the world by surprise. Swine influenza is a mix of pig, bird and human genes and is an airborne virus that can be caught by exposure to the live animal, and be transmitted from human to human via liquid particles in breath. It is not transmitted by eating pork. This morning, I went to buy some masks at a pharmacy because this epidemic is becoming worst in Malacca. Besides, Nelson had not go shopping for almost 2 weeks and sure he miss hanging around in the shopping mall. Seems that all the necessities in our home had not fill up for a long time already, so I think I will go buy some groceries with a mask tomorrow.

In humans, the symptoms of swine flu are similar to those of the common influenza illness. The symptoms include:

- chills

- fever

- sore throat

- muscle pain

- severe headaches

- coughing

- weakness and general discomforts

As a conclusion, for those who are affected by the symptoms as above, seek medical consultant as soon as possible.